Sunday, January 27, 2013

A new day , a new life !


  You are young and full of energy  , your friends and family are always there for you and everything seems to be ok , except one thing .
 Your boyfriend said “it’s over” long time ago , but you still can’t accept the reality ? Or maybe it’s you who realized that your life will be better without him , even though you still love him ? Well  , whatever it is broke ups are always hard .  I know only one way to start it over  .

Step 1 : Let it out girl , let it out ! xD
  I’m the type of person who really thinks that crying  helps . Showing the way you feel inside is never embarrassing  . So ….. cry  baby , cry !  All you need is your phone and chocolates .  Call your best friend and just LET IT OUT ! 


Step 2 :  Get rid of painful memories ….

 I know some of you will say that this “step “  isn’t  a good idea , that all those photos are memories of the good time the 2 of you once had . I accept and respect your opinion . But let’s think about it once again . Imagine for a moment that  your dating someone and this person keeps all his old photos with the ex-lover . And trust me after you will forget him , all those  “ memories of the good times “ with him will means nothing for you .  So , GET RID OF THEM ! xD


Step 3 :  The other side of the coin
 Take a sheet of paper and write down all the things that made you angry about him . All of them !  And write down the qualities that you want to see in your prince charming . xD  ‘cause you deserve him . 

Step 4 : Don’t call him !
 Don’t call  nor text him !  Even if you feel lonely in the middle of the night  . Better call your friends , they definitely know how to make you laugh . 

Step 5 : Keep your mind busy 
 Time to party !  Go out with your friends  , start learning Chinese , flirt some nice guys you found randomly on internet , listen to some music that can make you fly away xD ,anything that can make you stop thinking about him is good . 
 Here are some songs that make me fly away xD :

GD & TOP : HIGH HIGH

Pussycat Dolls - I don't need a man 
Big Bang - Fantastic Baby 
Step 6 : New life , new LOOK !
 You have no idea how a new look can make magic .  Time to change your style . A new haircut can give you more confidence . Don’t be afraid to try new things  or wear  clothes that  you liked for some time now , but were not confident enough to wear them . 




Step 7 : Be yourself !
 Change your style , but don’t change yourself . You are the way you are and you are FANTASTIC BABY !
“ What do you say  ? It’s over ?  @.@  Oh , right ! It’s over and it’s you lost !!!  “ . Pfft ….. the loser just isn’t good at recognizing the true diamonds xD .



Step 8 :  Woke up girl
“ Let’s be friends ? “  Really?  Do you want to keep him in your life as a friend ? Very good , but let’s wait with it for now .  A friendship between you two will be possible just after you get rid of your feelings for him .  And even though the two of you are now friends , to rush to tell him much about your new life nor spend much time with him . Or your feelings will get over you even harder than before  .

And now that you are ready for a new life  ...... OPPA GANGNAM STYLE xD

PSY - GANGNAM STYLE
Hope I helped or at least you enjoyed reading it as much as I enjoyed writing it ! And I enjoyed it a lot  xD 
XOXO NFS !


Sunday, January 13, 2013

Stereotypes. Handsome guys

TVXQ's Changmin <3 A perfect example of a handsome guy ! ke ke ke

 There are so many stereotypes about handsome guys . That they are arrogant , liars ,stupid . But are all those rumors truth or made up by some jealous people ? Well, let’s see how handsome guys really are .  

  1) Handsome guys = 100 % cheaters / playboys ?

  Handsome guys are always surrounded by pretty girls ,isn’t it? But it doesn’t mean that they will play with a girl’s feelings .  Also you have to realize that good-looking guys have their complexes and one of them is to lose their charm . And from times to times they feel like they need to prove that they are still charming . Yet it’s important for guys to don’t lose themselves  in those “weak “ moments  . They just need to realize that if your girlfriend is still with you , it already proves that you are still wanted  .

   2)   They are dating just good-looking girls ?


  Well …… you will never see the most handsome guy from your school going out with a timid , old-fashioned girl , isn’t it ? All guys like pretty girls  , in the end of the day girls also dream to have near a handsome guys , isn’t it ? But there are also times when the opposites get attracted  by each other . And that’s mean that you don’t have to look like a model to have a good-looking boyfriend . Be a bit more confident and a little more foxy , that’s what all the guys like xD .

3)Are they narcissists / arrogant ?
 They are obsessed with their look ? They look in the mirror every 5 minutes ?  I don’t think anyone can really be like this . I think it was made up by some less attractive people or just jealous people xD . Let’s  look at it from another angle , how great will it be to go shopping with your boyfriend who won’t tell you that it’s  just a waste of time , but can also help you with an advice .

 4)      Handsome guys =  Stupid guys ?
 Everybody knows all those jokes about blonde girls , oh , well handsome guys have to deal with  such problems either . But it does not mean that all good-looking people are stupid . Probably all of you have ever met a girl saying that she doesn’t want to have a handsome boyfriend , because she has nothing to talk with them about , sounds like an excuse . I bet she also has her eyes on this guy , but he doesn’t even notice her xD. Everyone is different , there are handsome and smart guys as well as ugly and stupid guys and sure there are also handsome and less smart guys either . Is high IQ more important than a good personality ? Yes ? Wow , and since when ? 

5) They think all girls are at their feet ? 

 They are used to have a lot of girls around them without making a lot of effort ?  They think you will fall for them at first sight ?  Proud of the “collection “ that they made until now ? Sadly, most of them really think this way .  Handsome guys are always a bit arrogant when it comes down to their charms . They know exactly what to do and what to say to make you fall for them . That’s why you have to be careful around all those good-looking guys xD . You can never know what is on their minds . But let’s not be sad , you will definitely meet your good-looking guy who will love just you . 

Christina Aguilera - Beautiful people 

Good luck in finding your handsome guy ^^
With love ,
NFS 



Monday, December 24, 2012

The Holidays are Coming!

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year, readers !!
As the lovely holidays are coming we decided to help you in increasing your Christmas spirit.Hope these movies will remind you about your childhood hopes of seeing Santa. May these songs fill your house with a "family reunion atmosphere".And wish this gifts and pictures will decorate your phone and PC screens ,too. Cause not only your house is waiting for the garlands, stockings, candles and a beautiful Xmas tree.


As we know such holiday as Christmas and New Year are perfect for some dedications, surprises, and memorable events. So, before presenting a list of the music and films for saint's days, I want to inspire you with few videos that amazed me:



And, now a long-awaited list!
                 Movies:                                                                                         Music:
Home Alone (1990)                                                             All I Want For Christmas
Home Alone 2: Lost in New York (1992)                            Let it snow
The Nightmare Before Christmas (1993)                           Shake Up Christmas
How the Grinch Stole Christmas (2000)                             Jingle Bell Rock
Elf (2003)                                                                             Happy New Year
Bad Santa (2003)                                                                Last Christmas
Love Actually (2003)                                                           My Only Wish This Year
The Polar Express (2004)                                                   Around the Christmas Tree
The Holiday (2006)                                                             SO THIS IS CHRISTMAS

Fred Claus (2007)                                                               Have a Holly Jolly Christmas
Four Christmases (2008)                                                    Last Christmas
A Christmas Carol (2009)                                                  Merry Little Christmas
Mr. Popper's Penguins (2011)                                            This Christmas

Photo collection:







*We do not own these pictures. The photos are taken from Tumblr. Pictures of Chisinau Xmas decorations belong to #spatari's blog.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!
With love,
NFS

Saturday, December 8, 2012

Love and distance


  Everybody lately talks about love , everybody has a different understanding of this word “love” , but watching people from afar you’ll notice how absorbed they are searching for a lover, for their “one and only” . But finding love isn’t so hard as it is to keep it. Someone told me that “ love never lose” , now  I wonder is it true or not . It feels amazing to love and to be loved , to hold hands, to kiss , to protect and to respect each other . But what will happen if the two of them won’t be able to do it ? Can people fall in love or keep their relationship at distance ? I think yes, it’s possible ! I choose to believe in love , even if it’s hard sometimes . 

  Have you ever found a person through internet with whom you could talk all day and night and feel like there isn’t any distance between you two ? I was lucky enough  to find such person . And I bet everyone of us have even met a person with whom you couldn’t find at least one topic to  talk about . Even if the person was right in front of you , but you felt like there was a big distance between you two.
 The distance can make your relationship stronger or can make it fall apart . It can be a hard challenge for a couple since they won’t be able even to kiss each other , but the “forbidden fruit “ is always sweeter , isn’t it ? xD
   Don't waste your time ,if you found the right person , make sure you do everything to make her /him feel special . 
            With LOVE , NFS !

Friday, November 23, 2012

Change the world !


 Last week I've had a lot of free time, but the weather was not so sunny and I decided to stay home to watch some movies . I know those movies will touch the bottom of your heart .
THE BLIND SIDE 
FRONT OF THE CLASS
DESERT FLOWER 
 Those 3 movies have something in common behind the fact that they are all based  on a true story. All of them shows how one person can change someone else’s life or the whole society . By helping someone else , you discover new sides of yourself that you never knew , you are helping yourself to be a better person .
Everybody talks about love , but you love just your family and  friends . While there are so many people that need your love .
 BLACK EYED PEAS -WHERE IS LOVE ?
 Have you noticed how many people die , how many accidents happen each year ? Do you know how many people live with physical diseases ? How many women are hurt because of their country’s law ?
All they need is love and support . People can be so cruel sometimes without even realizing it . To make the people change their situation ,give them an example of how to do it right ! Be tolerant ! Do your best ! Make this world a better place ! 
MICHAEL JACKSON - HEAL THE WORLD 
Everybody is so different ,so unique and each of us can give so much to this world. Why not to do it ?
BEYONCE - I WAS HERE 
Hope you enjoyed the music and movies !
WITH LOVE ,NFS <3










Friday, November 16, 2012

Mothers♥


As we all know family is one of the most important things in everybody’s being. And family members are the closest friends a person might have in a whole life. They help us to pass some problems or to find some confidence in ourselves, to get a goal. They influence our life as much as we influence theirs. But nobody will stand by your side in any case until the end, except your mother.


Nowadays, teenagers don’t appreciate their mother’s care and put on the first positions their friends, lovers and interests. But let’s browse through the history of your own.
Yesterday, you have won the championship of the best runners. Talking with the journalists you thank your trainer for your success. But who was your first trainer? Who had taught you to walk?


A year ago your novel became a bestseller. Now you are the best play writer of a world. You thank your dreams that gave you an idea of the scenery? But who was the person who have been teaching you an alphabet for ages, because you couldn’t understand, what’s the difference, between “u” and “w”?




Mothers -have the greatest influence on us!

As a conclusion I want to say: Listen to your mother. It’s not just a simple phrase the adults say to you every time instead of “good-bye”. Otherwise you might lose a good chance to affirm yourself as a unique person. 





                                          With love for all the mothers from the whole world,
NFS

Tuesday, November 6, 2012

Let the world know your name ! (Fame!)


 Not long ago someone asked me “-How to be famous ? “ . But I didn’t have an answer. I guess that’s the reason why this question stuck in my head for some time . Trying to find the answer , in my head started to appear more and more questions.

What fame is ?
Fame – condition of being known or talked about by many people, esp. on account of notable achievements. Reputation .
“Fame means millions of people have the wrong idea of who you are”  -Erica Jong

Why everybody wants to be famous ? What ‘fame’ can give you  ?
“Fame is very big and very visible professional success . It is the key to the good side of life’s velvet ropes. For those who win it , society  will grant them wealth ,power, access , recognition , and other tools to live an extraordinary life “ –Jay Jessup
“ The life given us , by nature is short ;but the memory of a well-spent life is eternal”-Marcus Tullius Cicero  

 Most famous people are actors ,singers , models, presidents , champions . Looking up to all those people you probably wonder “- How did they gain it all ?”,”-How to be famous?”  . The formula is really simple :
Hard Work + Talent = 100 % Success 

“I’ve always been famous, it’s just no one knew it yet”- Lady Gaga
“ You just wait . I’m going to be the biggest Chinese star in the world “ – Bruce Lee


 To make the world know your name you got to work really hard , that’s why it’s so important to do what makes you happy. The only hard thing is to keep this strong desire  in your heart and to keep working each day to get closer to your dream . You can meet a lot of people who instead of supporting you ,will try to bring you down. And if you feel like you are about to give up , remember what did you do it for !







The Script ft. Will. I .Am - Hall of Fame 

Irene Cara - Fame (original version)
Su Pearls - Fame ( fav. cover <3 )
                                 
Hope you enjoyed the music =^.^=
with love , NFS !



Tuesday, October 30, 2012

Happy Halloween !


  
Halloween is coming ! Are you guys ready to have some fun?
 Halloween is one of my favorite holidays . Curious why ? Because I think everybody wants sometimes to put on a mask and do some crazy things you normally won’t do xD . And Halloween is the perfect day for it! Don’t you think so  ?

Having hard times doing your costume ? Don’t know whom you want to be ?

Want to be mysterious ?
Maybe you want look scary ?
Or want to be cute ?
I know it’s her daily look , but I’d try it for Halloween .

Whatever your choice is I think I know who can help you !
 She is Promise Phan , one of my favorite make-up artists. Her videos + a bit of practice and you will have an incredible Halloween . Or you could do a mask on your own , which is a bit harder I think . But here is a mask I like : 

Let’s have fun !!! 
Hope you’ll have some great time trying it . 
Happy Halloween ,NFS !





Sunday, October 28, 2012

Learn to be confident !


 I decided to write this post , because it seems to be a big issue with a lot of people.
Doesn’t matter, how old are you and what place in this society do you take, there are always some people around you trying to bring you down with their harsh words and actions. Everyone had a moment when our confidence was crushed . Maybe you were bullied at school or maybe someone told you , you are not good enough. 
 But then comes a moment when you get sick  and tired  of all that and you realize that it has to be changed .
“It takes far less courage to kill yourself than it takes to make yourself wake up one more time .” –Judith Rossner

  You can change the world ,by  changing your heart. But if there’s something that can’t be changed , change your attitude towards this thing.  You  can‘t  make all those people stop talking about you , but you know what ? As long as they keep hating means  you’re doing something right .  While all those people are focused on you , focus on things you like to do , on people that make you happy , on your dreams . People always judge , but don’t let them bring you down. Making your dreams come true is the best form of revenge .


 I guess you think that it’s easier to say than to actually do it . Well, true ! But I want to share with you some tips that I hope will help you .

1 Don’t compare yourself to the others. Just because they are good-looking doesn’t mean  you are not ! Instead of wishing you were someone else, be proud of who you are , you never know whose been looking at you wishing they could be you .

2 Surround yourself with friends who will remind you how wonderful you are !

3 Waking up in the morning go to the mirror , smile and compliment yourself , because you deserve it , make some funny faces .It will also help when you are in a bad mood xD .

4 Make the other people feel comfortable around you by complimenting them , but  do it just because you want it, don’t do it in order to please others. And don’t be annoying , leave  them some space to mind their business .

5 Learn to do things on your own .

6 Your confidence must be based on something. You may be an amazing dancer , actor or singer , maybe you have a higher IQ than your classmates or you are good at sports etc.

7 Change your body language . While walking , don’t let your head down , sure you have to watch your steps to don’t fall xD . Don’t be afraid to make eye contacts , I bet they won’t  bite you xD . Don’t talk too fast , make your speech  understandable . Be calm .
8 If you want to be happy , be !

But to make the others realize how smart , beautiful and confident you are , you have to realize it first !
Here are some of my favorite quotes that make me feel stronger :
“I don’t care what you think about me . I don’t think about you  at all .”  – Coco Chanel

“Worry less about what other people think about you and more about what you think about them“ -Fay Weldom

“Who are you to judge the life I live? I’m not perfect and I don’t have to be . Before you start pointing  fingers, make sure your hands are clean .” –Bob Marley

“If I didn’t care for fun and such, I’d probably amount to much. But I shall stay the way I am, because I don’t give a damn. “ –Dorothy Parker 

Those are some great quotes from some great people . 
                                                                                              

            Hope I helped . With love , NFS !