Sunday, January 27, 2013

A new day , a new life !

  You are young and full of energy  , your friends and family are always there for you and everything seems to be ok , except one thing .
 Your boyfriend said “it’s over” long time ago , but you still can’t accept the reality ? Or maybe it’s you who realized that your life will be better without him , even though you still love him ? Well  , whatever it is broke ups are always hard .  I know only one way to start it over  .

Step 1 : Let it out girl , let it out ! xD
  I’m the type of person who really thinks that crying  helps . Showing the way you feel inside is never embarrassing  . So ….. cry  baby , cry !  All you need is your phone and chocolates .  Call your best friend and just LET IT OUT ! 

Step 2 :  Get rid of painful memories ….

 I know some of you will say that this “step “  isn’t  a good idea , that all those photos are memories of the good time the 2 of you once had . I accept and respect your opinion . But let’s think about it once again . Imagine for a moment that  your dating someone and this person keeps all his old photos with the ex-lover . And trust me after you will forget him , all those  “ memories of the good times “ with him will means nothing for you .  So , GET RID OF THEM ! xD

Step 3 :  The other side of the coin
 Take a sheet of paper and write down all the things that made you angry about him . All of them !  And write down the qualities that you want to see in your prince charming . xD  ‘cause you deserve him . 

Step 4 : Don’t call him !
 Don’t call  nor text him !  Even if you feel lonely in the middle of the night  . Better call your friends , they definitely know how to make you laugh . 

Step 5 : Keep your mind busy 
 Time to party !  Go out with your friends  , start learning Chinese , flirt some nice guys you found randomly on internet , listen to some music that can make you fly away xD ,anything that can make you stop thinking about him is good . 
 Here are some songs that make me fly away xD :


Pussycat Dolls - I don't need a man 
Big Bang - Fantastic Baby 
Step 6 : New life , new LOOK !
 You have no idea how a new look can make magic .  Time to change your style . A new haircut can give you more confidence . Don’t be afraid to try new things  or wear  clothes that  you liked for some time now , but were not confident enough to wear them . 

Step 7 : Be yourself !
 Change your style , but don’t change yourself . You are the way you are and you are FANTASTIC BABY !
“ What do you say  ? It’s over ?  @.@  Oh , right ! It’s over and it’s you lost !!!  “ . Pfft ….. the loser just isn’t good at recognizing the true diamonds xD .

Step 8 :  Woke up girl
“ Let’s be friends ? “  Really?  Do you want to keep him in your life as a friend ? Very good , but let’s wait with it for now .  A friendship between you two will be possible just after you get rid of your feelings for him .  And even though the two of you are now friends , to rush to tell him much about your new life nor spend much time with him . Or your feelings will get over you even harder than before  .

And now that you are ready for a new life  ...... OPPA GANGNAM STYLE xD

Hope I helped or at least you enjoyed reading it as much as I enjoyed writing it ! And I enjoyed it a lot  xD 

Sunday, January 13, 2013

Stereotypes. Handsome guys

TVXQ's Changmin <3 A perfect example of a handsome guy ! ke ke ke

 There are so many stereotypes about handsome guys . That they are arrogant , liars ,stupid . But are all those rumors truth or made up by some jealous people ? Well, let’s see how handsome guys really are .  

  1) Handsome guys = 100 % cheaters / playboys ?

  Handsome guys are always surrounded by pretty girls ,isn’t it? But it doesn’t mean that they will play with a girl’s feelings .  Also you have to realize that good-looking guys have their complexes and one of them is to lose their charm . And from times to times they feel like they need to prove that they are still charming . Yet it’s important for guys to don’t lose themselves  in those “weak “ moments  . They just need to realize that if your girlfriend is still with you , it already proves that you are still wanted  .

   2)   They are dating just good-looking girls ?

  Well …… you will never see the most handsome guy from your school going out with a timid , old-fashioned girl , isn’t it ? All guys like pretty girls  , in the end of the day girls also dream to have near a handsome guys , isn’t it ? But there are also times when the opposites get attracted  by each other . And that’s mean that you don’t have to look like a model to have a good-looking boyfriend . Be a bit more confident and a little more foxy , that’s what all the guys like xD .

3)Are they narcissists / arrogant ?
 They are obsessed with their look ? They look in the mirror every 5 minutes ?  I don’t think anyone can really be like this . I think it was made up by some less attractive people or just jealous people xD . Let’s  look at it from another angle , how great will it be to go shopping with your boyfriend who won’t tell you that it’s  just a waste of time , but can also help you with an advice .

 4)      Handsome guys =  Stupid guys ?
 Everybody knows all those jokes about blonde girls , oh , well handsome guys have to deal with  such problems either . But it does not mean that all good-looking people are stupid . Probably all of you have ever met a girl saying that she doesn’t want to have a handsome boyfriend , because she has nothing to talk with them about , sounds like an excuse . I bet she also has her eyes on this guy , but he doesn’t even notice her xD. Everyone is different , there are handsome and smart guys as well as ugly and stupid guys and sure there are also handsome and less smart guys either . Is high IQ more important than a good personality ? Yes ? Wow , and since when ? 

5) They think all girls are at their feet ? 

 They are used to have a lot of girls around them without making a lot of effort ?  They think you will fall for them at first sight ?  Proud of the “collection “ that they made until now ? Sadly, most of them really think this way .  Handsome guys are always a bit arrogant when it comes down to their charms . They know exactly what to do and what to say to make you fall for them . That’s why you have to be careful around all those good-looking guys xD . You can never know what is on their minds . But let’s not be sad , you will definitely meet your good-looking guy who will love just you . 

Christina Aguilera - Beautiful people 

Good luck in finding your handsome guy ^^
With love ,