You are young and full of energy , your friends and family are always there for you and everything seems to be ok , except one thing .
Your boyfriend said “it’s over” long time ago , but you still can’t accept the reality ? Or maybe it’s you who realized that your life will be better without him , even though you still love him ? Well , whatever it is broke ups are always hard . I know only one way to start it over .
Step 1 : Let it out girl , let it out ! xD
I’m the type of person who really thinks that crying helps . Showing the way you feel inside is never embarrassing . So ….. cry baby , cry ! All you need is your phone and chocolates . Call your best friend and just LET IT OUT !
Step 2 : Get rid of painful memories ….
I know some of you will say that this “step “ isn’t a good idea , that all those photos are memories of the good time the 2 of you once had . I accept and respect your opinion . But let’s think about it once again . Imagine for a moment that your dating someone and this person keeps all his old photos with the ex-lover . And trust me after you will forget him , all those “ memories of the good times “ with him will means nothing for you . So , GET RID OF THEM ! xD
Step 3 : The other side of the coin
Take a sheet of paper and write down all the things that made you angry about him . All of them ! And write down the qualities that you want to see in your prince charming . xD ‘cause you deserve him .
Step 4 : Don’t call him !
Don’t call nor text him ! Even if you feel lonely in the middle of the night . Better call your friends , they definitely know how to make you laugh .
Step 5 : Keep your mind busy
Time to party ! Go out with your friends , start learning Chinese , flirt some nice guys you found randomly on internet , listen to some music that can make you fly away xD ,anything that can make you stop thinking about him is good .
Here are some songs that make me fly away xD :
GD & TOP : HIGH HIGH
Pussycat Dolls - I don't need a man
Big Bang - Fantastic Baby
Step 6 : New life , new LOOK !
You have no idea how a new look can make magic . Time to change your style . A new haircut can give you more confidence . Don’t be afraid to try new things or wear clothes that you liked for some time now , but were not confident enough to wear them .
Step 7 : Be yourself !
Change your style , but don’t change yourself . You are the way you are and you are FANTASTIC BABY !
“ What do you say ? It’s over ? @.@ Oh , right ! It’s over and it’s you lost !!! “ . Pfft ….. the loser just isn’t good at recognizing the true diamonds xD .
Step 8 : Woke up girl
“ Let’s be friends ? “ Really? Do you want to keep him in your life as a friend ? Very good , but let’s wait with it for now . A friendship between you two will be possible just after you get rid of your feelings for him . And even though the two of you are now friends , to rush to tell him much about your new life nor spend much time with him . Or your feelings will get over you even harder than before .
And now that you are ready for a new life ...... OPPA GANGNAM STYLE xD
PSY - GANGNAM STYLE
Hope I helped or at least you enjoyed reading it as much as I enjoyed writing it ! And I enjoyed it a lot xD
XOXO NFS !