Sunday, January 27, 2013

A new day , a new life !

  You are young and full of energy  , your friends and family are always there for you and everything seems to be ok , except one thing .
 Your boyfriend said “it’s over” long time ago , but you still can’t accept the reality ? Or maybe it’s you who realized that your life will be better without him , even though you still love him ? Well  , whatever it is broke ups are always hard .  I know only one way to start it over  .

Step 1 : Let it out girl , let it out ! xD
  I’m the type of person who really thinks that crying  helps . Showing the way you feel inside is never embarrassing  . So ….. cry  baby , cry !  All you need is your phone and chocolates .  Call your best friend and just LET IT OUT ! 

Step 2 :  Get rid of painful memories ….

 I know some of you will say that this “step “  isn’t  a good idea , that all those photos are memories of the good time the 2 of you once had . I accept and respect your opinion . But let’s think about it once again . Imagine for a moment that  your dating someone and this person keeps all his old photos with the ex-lover . And trust me after you will forget him , all those  “ memories of the good times “ with him will means nothing for you .  So , GET RID OF THEM ! xD

Step 3 :  The other side of the coin
 Take a sheet of paper and write down all the things that made you angry about him . All of them !  And write down the qualities that you want to see in your prince charming . xD  ‘cause you deserve him . 

Step 4 : Don’t call him !
 Don’t call  nor text him !  Even if you feel lonely in the middle of the night  . Better call your friends , they definitely know how to make you laugh . 

Step 5 : Keep your mind busy 
 Time to party !  Go out with your friends  , start learning Chinese , flirt some nice guys you found randomly on internet , listen to some music that can make you fly away xD ,anything that can make you stop thinking about him is good . 
 Here are some songs that make me fly away xD :


Pussycat Dolls - I don't need a man 
Big Bang - Fantastic Baby 
Step 6 : New life , new LOOK !
 You have no idea how a new look can make magic .  Time to change your style . A new haircut can give you more confidence . Don’t be afraid to try new things  or wear  clothes that  you liked for some time now , but were not confident enough to wear them . 

Step 7 : Be yourself !
 Change your style , but don’t change yourself . You are the way you are and you are FANTASTIC BABY !
“ What do you say  ? It’s over ?  @.@  Oh , right ! It’s over and it’s you lost !!!  “ . Pfft ….. the loser just isn’t good at recognizing the true diamonds xD .

Step 8 :  Woke up girl
“ Let’s be friends ? “  Really?  Do you want to keep him in your life as a friend ? Very good , but let’s wait with it for now .  A friendship between you two will be possible just after you get rid of your feelings for him .  And even though the two of you are now friends , to rush to tell him much about your new life nor spend much time with him . Or your feelings will get over you even harder than before  .

And now that you are ready for a new life  ...... OPPA GANGNAM STYLE xD

Hope I helped or at least you enjoyed reading it as much as I enjoyed writing it ! And I enjoyed it a lot  xD