I decided to write this post , because it seems to be a big issue with a lot of people.
Doesn’t matter, how old are you and what place in this society do you take, there are always some people around you trying to bring you down with their harsh words and actions. Everyone had a moment when our confidence was crushed . Maybe you were bullied at school or maybe someone told you , you are not good enough.
But then comes a moment when you get sick and tired of all that and you realize that it has to be changed .
“It takes far less courage to kill yourself than it takes to make yourself wake up one more time .” –Judith Rossner
You can change the world ,by changing your heart. But if there’s something that can’t be changed , change your attitude towards this thing. You can‘t make all those people stop talking about you , but you know what ? As long as they keep hating means you’re doing something right . While all those people are focused on you , focus on things you like to do , on people that make you happy , on your dreams . People always judge , but don’t let them bring you down. Making your dreams come true is the best form of revenge .
I guess you think that it’s easier to say than to actually do it . Well, true ! But I want to share with you some tips that I hope will help you .
1 Don’t compare yourself to the others. Just because they are good-looking doesn’t mean you are not ! Instead of wishing you were someone else, be proud of who you are , you never know whose been looking at you wishing they could be you .
2 Surround yourself with friends who will remind you how wonderful you are !
3 Waking up in the morning go to the mirror , smile and compliment yourself , because you deserve it , make some funny faces .It will also help when you are in a bad mood xD .
4 Make the other people feel comfortable around you by complimenting them , but do it just because you want it, don’t do it in order to please others. And don’t be annoying , leave them some space to mind their business .
5 Learn to do things on your own .
6 Your confidence must be based on something. You may be an amazing dancer , actor or singer , maybe you have a higher IQ than your classmates or you are good at sports etc.
7 Change your body language . While walking , don’t let your head down , sure you have to watch your steps to don’t fall xD . Don’t be afraid to make eye contacts , I bet they won’t bite you xD . Don’t talk too fast , make your speech understandable . Be calm .
8 If you want to be happy , be !
But to make the others realize how smart , beautiful and confident you are , you have to realize it first !
Here are some of my favorite quotes that make me feel stronger :
“I don’t care what you think about me . I don’t think about you at all .” – Coco Chanel
“Worry less about what other people think about you and more about what you think about them“ -Fay Weldom
“Who are you to judge the life I live? I’m not perfect and I don’t have to be . Before you start pointing fingers, make sure your hands are clean .” –Bob Marley
“If I didn’t care for fun and such, I’d probably amount to much. But I shall stay the way I am, because I don’t give a damn. “ –Dorothy Parker
Those are some great quotes from some great people .
Hope I helped . With love , NFS !